Still passionate about your spouse's affair after it's over?
When you are passionate about your spouse's affair, you will endure pain and suffering for a long time. How would you feel if you found out your partner cheated on you? If your partner feels remorse after an affair and wants to be faithful to you, you may decide to end the relationship in order to get the latest reconciliation. In both cases, the pain of the affair may stay with you for a while. But you have to choose how long to live with this discomfort. If you plan to show enthusiasm for your spouse's affair while at the same time forgiving your lover and getting the relationship back on track, then you are being unfair to your spouse. Even if you've forgiven your spouse for their infidelity, it's not fair to continue to deepen their pain. In many cases, although the wound has healed, the pain will continue for a while, and the discomfort caused by the trauma will continue for a while. But you have to watch to see if your discomfort lessens over time. Usually, the in...